I'm shocked to hear such a disappointing review.
First off, I believe you can turn off the confidence influence for pitchers in the global setting.
You obviously haven't played mlb 2k the past 3 years...it makes it incredibly easy to love this game.
I think if you change levels and/or fool with the sliders you can find the perfect game for you. It's impossible for a game to be perfect for every gamer out of the box. That being said...i'm not sure how you can say there is no user control so i'd like a follow up to that if you get a chance.